As children though no one may have intentionally done so, we have come across comparisons..
People say it as an observation but the feeling of competition gets created.. No one ever tells us how perfect each one of us is ..
And why will anyone tell us? No one ever told them.. Each person has only been taught and told about their shortcomings and weaknesses..
No one ever told them how complete and perfect they were!!
We never felt it as children and so we will never be able to tell it to our children..
The chain needs to break somewhere na?? I have learned about so many personality types that I can appreciate the qualities that each personality type brings with them.
But one can easily mess this up by comparing the personality types!! What vibrance an extrovert brings along , it can never be compared to the stillness and reflecting ability of an introvert!! Then why compare the two??
Each one of is perfect in our own way and we have to kinda keep saying this to ourselves so that we can save the trouble for our future generation..
I remember one f my friends saying the only competition that works is self competition!! Being better than what we were before 🙂
I guess even if we don’t – the universe is perfect and when the time comes things will change , one person at a time 🙂
PS: This blog-post is my way of confirming/ reinforcing my beliefs !! Judging me / Assessing me based on these posts can be done at one’s own risk