What if !!!!

A tiny strand of some self limiting belief is generally the culprit that gets in our way ..

A speck of fear that’s really an opportunity towards more fun, gets blown up into this huge block..

One realizes this only after finding the courage to move beyond fear n lo n behold.. it was all a farce..

I’ve thrashed at least four such ‘false n yet held true’ beliefs with my super coach in the last few months! They were causing havoc in my life ..

N so much happens just by being open n willing to talk about these fears n kinda jump into them..

You get to see it yourself! You get to strip your ‘limiting belief’ off all the power you gave it n you get to see it banished out of your life..

I’d love to share few of the self limiting beliefs I got to thrash n kick out of my life (thanks to my super coach Jon) :

~ I have to change myself n ‘fit in’ in order to make it work

~ I have to step into that awkward zone if I wanna ace in selling

~ My studio (I super love both my studios even when I gave power to this Bs belief) isn’t worth raving about cuz in the eyes of the world it’s not perfect 

N quite a few more related to my ‘mommy beliefs’ 

Thank god I thrashed them outta my system!

I feel great believing my life is exactly how I imagine it to be! Easy, effortless, dreamy, unbelievably magnificent!!!

N probably a year from now, fb will share this post on my wall, n I will have proof of how quickly my life steered into the right direction , thanks to me dumping my kinda good friend FEAR for FUN😍

Hope this fear keeps coming into my life regularly, allowing me to expand n grow by thrashing all the beliefs that are causing it in the first place.. 

love

aryaa

Ps: Love your life n chuck ‘what-you-think-the-world-thinks’

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Choose!!!

Quitting a full time job for ‘something I didn’t quite know’ makes so much more sense now, than ever!!!

When I quit my job back in 2011, I had no idea ‘for what’ was I leaving something this stable..

N now, after years of ‘not giving up’ on myself beyond the lows n highs, n holding on to one tiny string of authenticity, I know beyond doubt ..that girl in that job : wasn’t me at all!!!

This is ME!!

Me having fun with my son, after school is ME!!

Me spending time alone in my studio, wrestling with an art piece is ME!!

Me playing with colors, and words, is ME!!

Me watching movies, and diving deep into myself ..thanks to them is ME!!

Me showing up with my coaches, every single week after week is ME!!

Me, swearing never to wear formals, cuz it just doesn’t feel like me is ME!!

Me, choosing to stay out of the kitchen, cuz it doesn’t feel like me is ME!!!

Me, choosing everything that feels good n abandoning everything else that doesn’t is ME!!!

Simply knowing what I deeply wanted out of life has been enough for me to get there..

N somehow, that knowing didn’t come easy.. 

it’s taken me a whole long infinite times of choosing n re choosing to finally know what feels good n what doesn’t..

So!!!

Choose!!! Every single time you get to choose : Just Choose!

Red or Yellow : choose rather than randomly picking..

If you wanna go random : choose Random!!!

But choose!!

Every single choice, the food you choose, the shoes, the colors, clothes, music, movies, art, hobbies, work,places to go on vacation : every thing together makes you!!

N if you have one choice to fine tune that YOU: go for it!!

With time, you will be your best friend ♥️

Easy Peasy🎁

Yes!

Life is as simple as that 🙂 

Even when we have a road block that has obstructed the view of everything ahead, just this one step can be a beacon of hope♥️

What lights you up?

Music, movies,a friend, pasta, nachos, a hug, a kid, chocolate???

An episode of GOT, a book, Netflix, iTunes, free music downloads, cutting chai??

A walk on the beach,fresh air out of your window, green trees outdoors, a hammock, yummy delight ???

A massage, a gift, a tour, a trip, a hike, spontaneous travel???

Anything that lights you up, will bring forth the light you endlessly shine through you..

Try it🎁

The gift 🎁 

When your heart calls out to you, to follow a trail that you have no clue about,believe me, you’re about to be showered with the gift of pure love ..

Not from outside you but from within!!

When you dig your hands into sand making sand castles, or play in the rain, or look at a pet n know the emotion deeply beyond words, it’s your own being showering you with pure love!!

When you talk to plants n flowers n tune into their energy, or smile at a stranger, or look at sunshine, you will know this immense feeling of love shining from within!!

If you have ever immersed yourself into any kind of art, or music or dance or anything close to it, you will know this feeling!!

It’s the gift of life! The gift of being aligned to your inner being who never has an emotion (forget thoughts or words) against you!!

~aryaa 

The easy ride

When we are at cross roads, n it’s tough to decide which path to choose, you will have a lot of people guide you (or may be misguide you) towards which ones the right one..

Only you will understand, which one is the right one for you, cuz deep in your heart it will feel right!

It may appear as if you’re walking backwards, but if you are guided by your instinct to walk it, just take it 🙂 

Sometimes walking backwards is the easiest n fastest way to get into the drive that will get you towards your destination..

Believe me, you n only you, know all the answers to the questions you’ve asked 🙂

~aryaa

Side effects of being AUTHENTIC -3

The side effects of shining one’s authentic self are many! For starters, we really get to enjoy the differences in opinion cuz we agree no two people can think ‘exactly’ alike one hundred percent!!

N that brings us to end up being our own best buddy! Cuz it’s not others job to get us..it’s our job to get us, n their job to get themself ..

And when everyone is just getting busy being WHO THEY ARE, it doesn’t matter what others think of you. ‘Difference of opinion’ one can say, n just ignore it all! 

It’s important for one, to totally understand their calling, n urges! What do they like, what do they dislike.. Being who they are n shining that light out, is why we came here.

I’m just gonna be doing my business n taking care of how happy I stay! What others think about that is their work not mine 🙂

What say you??

~aryaa

Side effects of being AUTHENTIC -2

Being authentic, has its own side effects n if you’ve focused on expressing yourself, exactly the way you are, you will know that not many would get you completely..

N that’s the happiest part of choosing to be here on this planet!! 

We get to be our best buddy, even if that’s the only choice we have. It’s not a bad choice really..

Unless we become our own buddies, its tough to be someone else’s..

Happy work here, and authentic living is a ball game of its own!! 

~ aryaa