Trace backs!

Isn’t it wonderful to be able to trace back some of the most wonderful events/ incidents/ beginnings..

To actually be able to say, this point in time is where ‘it’ started..

my love for swimming started here! By this wonderful natural salts water pool in floating leaf resort, Bali ♥️

Also the ‘stretch’ of stuff I would do solo, began here.. my first solo trip ever..

The strength to be oneself, irrespective of how others see you… that too started here…

Only cuz I ‘scaringly’ allowed myself to be a part of an amazing retreat where I was the only Indian amidst 13 soul searching coaches.. Oh my! Where did that one solo trip get me..

Leaps n bounds in my brash journey of being me..

I might regret millions of words said / unsaid, goals set/ unset, ambitions discussed/ given up , promises made n unkept, friendships made n forgotten, or whatever..

One promise I’ve always kept!!!

My promise of being true to who I am..

Allowing myself to be happily unstable, in this set n stable world, all cuz my heart loves the unpredictable rhythm of itself ♥️

It’s tough to explain to others why you’re being you!!

It’s darn easy to just be YOU, without explanations…

N that for me, started here.. at this baby blog site ♥️

Isn’t it wonderful to be able to trace back some of the most wonderful events/ incidents/ beginnings..

♥️ aryaa

Be*ability vs. Likeability

Is it really our true nature to exist in ways that make us likeable?

I think not! 

We may have gotten ourselves trained, generations after generations, in the most undetectable manner, to exist in a way that gets us rave reviews..

It is funny how the streak of ‘being me’ as opposed to being liked just kept getting stronger n grew up on me!! 

As a girl in school, I remember feeling awkward after a bad haircut (read super short) n yet told myself how it would grow back.. 

I’ve actually cut my hair short so many times in my life, just for that thrill of telling myself, it’s okay!! 

It’s worth it to experiment rather than play safe!

It’s worth it to have lost my likeability for some be*ability..

I know I’m still that girl! Id like to think that I care rarely about what people think of me. Very few get me!! N times when I try to convince people why I do what I do, I seem insane..

It’s not possible for this world to get me!! Not in a sad way.. but a super positive way.. 

every one is busy figuring their path! Some are trying to work out a likeable path, some the be*able.. 

n it’s not possible for everyone to get me! Cuz their work is to get them self..

I get me!! N thats enough..

Even when the world wants to know if I completed that course I was pursuing (yes! I did!) n what I achieved after finishing it (nothing to be precise in your words) 

What I got??? 

I got the strength to be this crazy girl (not woman), who desires to be a jack of all trades, cuz one trade for one life seems boring..

I wanna paint, I wanna sing, I wanna play with my son, I wanna wear dungrees, I wanna teach others how easy painting is, I wanna be a super coach who allows others to BE rather than BE LIKED.. 

I wanna ace at insuring people’s lives with life insurance, I wanna travel the world, I wanna trust this path..

I wanna be in ever connection with my highest self..

I wanna be Shraddha! I wanna be Aryaa 

🙂

Shraddha makes mistakes, n Aryaa accepts them.. 

Shraddha feels insecure, feels less confident! Aryaa holds her hand, tells her it’s okay! 


Who am I? 

I am both! I feel insecure at the slight drop of a hat, just as easily I feel strong n forgiving!!

The more I reach out to my loving self, the one that lets me look silly, the one that lets me take ‘too high the risks’… the more I allow, the more I feel love towards others..

N at no point am I totally one hundred percent of either!! I am always this eclectic mix of proportions, of this girl I used to be n the girl I am becoming..

N I am in love with who she is becoming..

Fierce in her commitment to choose this weird multi passionate, multi career life.. 

it’s people’s work to tell u,that ure a fool to believe that u could be successful at multiple businesses when ure not even breaking even at one.. 

it’s your work to keep your alignment, n keep choosing this fine tuned, accurately curated life for yourself, irrespective of the flawed measurement of success..

Cuz in the end, you get to say ‘this is exactly how I wanted it to be’

~ love

Aryaa 

My saving grace: being OKAY!!


I’ve learned this lesson several tens of times, and yet when I’m struggling with any kinda negative emotion, I forget to turn to it.

We have been raised to escape from our emotions, and taught that it’s not right to feel anger or disappointment or whatever it is that others think isn’t desired..

I myself feel weird when my son feels guilty of expressing his disappointment. He openly speaks it! He expresses it by crying out loud. N I’m getting used to being okay with that..it’s tough n yet I’m learning..

It’s okay to feel anger! The minute we let it pass, it’s gone!! Struggling with it makes it stay! 

I intend to choose the ‘being okay with any negative emotion’ part.. It makes life super easy..

How do we rate our write? 5 fun tips to chill off writers❤️

The eternal judge inside our heads will never be satisfied with the write❤️ that’s been my experience. So how do we rate our write???

We don’t have to rate our write!! Read on ..

1. Our write just IS!

Every word that we write is deeply connected to us. It’s interwoven with our beliefs, our experiences and whatever we aspire to be. 

There’s no right or wrong way about it! 

It just IS!

2. Not everyone will hate our write (or love it)!

Every person is different and unique. Just as we can’t get along with every person around us, like that not everyone will connect or make sense with what we write.

And that is PERFECTLY OKAY❤️

We got to look for feedback that helps us feel good about our write, at the same time gives us the feel like we’re getting better. 


3. We have a unique message to give to the world

And this message is coming through you and me❤️ there’s a reason, we are feeling the need to express it.

The need for expressing our version of the truth is called forward.

We got to respect that and accept it lovingly❤️

4. Accomplishments and achievements are not the only stuff!

I’m not saying, believing our book/ write will get the acclaim and recognition is wrong.

It surely is the best feeling. Yet, writing is a process that can be enjoyed as is.

The very act of writing is a huge payoff. In which case the recognition, then becomes the bonus. Simply eyeing the bonus, can hinder our attention from the process. Focus on the process and trust,everything will work out for the best❤️

5. Listen to your gut feeling

Our intuition, or instincts are most often right! If the thought of writing isn’t working out, check what will help you write.

Some writers prefer being organized and some just don’t!

It’s easy to read the rules and follow them. Yet, you know yourself best.

If there is a solution you think will work for you, trust it! It will work.

Writing daily cuz that’s a rule, may not work with everyone (never works with me)

Or writing spontaneously may not work for everyone (the SJ types from MBTI).

Choose whatever works for you, and believe it’s the best cuz it is❤️

6. Enjoy the process as you feel the joy of writing!

This is the one reason I write! I’ve stopped caring for how many people like/ appreciate my style/ topics, and I’ve definitely given up on writing on a particular topic.

I do it spontaneously and I know this is the only way I can bring results❤️ I’ve manifested my baby into my life, believing and trusting my intuition, and the way i feel (and not going for IVF simply as a rule of the thumb) 

I know the first book and many more will follow thru just like that❤️ that kinda conviction is necessary!


Next time you wonder how you’re doing, just give yourself a pat on the back❤️

You’re doing magnificently well❤️

If there is anything you didn’t quite like about this one, please feel free to dislike it❤️ at the same time, please know each and every word is written with divine intent, and not meant to hurt anyone with different beliefs❤️

Enjoy the journey❤️

That’s the reason we are here, right?

Ten tips to tune into your highest vibration!


This is gonna be a short and quick post, cuz tuning in to ones highest vibration is as simple as it’s tough!

Ten quick tips here:

1. Look out any window, observe the greenery and breathe. If you choose to, observe the color of the leaves, the shape, listen to birds chirping, and feel the abundance around.❤️🎁

2. Especially when using fb, feel the joy when you see happy pictures of your friends, family members or even your own pics. Offer gratitude❤️🎁

3. Allow yourself that joy, you’ve held yourself back from. That sweet treat, that extra hour of tv or fb or may be bunking the gym for a day, whatever it is! You deserve it❤️🎁

4. Day dream about beautiful scenarios of vacations in places you’ve deeply desired to visit! Imagine them happening and share with others your desire to be there❤️🎁

5. Share your meal, pocket money, salary, lunch , whatever that you love with someone who also deserves to have it. Share as much as you please❤️🎁 yes SHARE❤️🎁

6. Tell your family members, how much they mean to you. In words, letters, on fb, in messages, however! Let them know they are a gift in your life, n offer gratitude for their presence ❤️🎁

7. Smile at strangers, and pass on the gratitude! Say hi if they do❤️🎁 say hi even if they don’t. Feel the warmth of your heart and let it spread across❤️🎁

8. If doing this more often is tough, do it once a day. Do something that pleases you, and fills you with joy irrespective of what others say or think about you.

9. Be you! Irrespective of the adjectives. Lazy, angry, loving, forgiving, emotional, kiddo, sweet, sexy whatever!! Just be YOU! That is exactly why you are alive, right?❤️🎁

10. Let others be too!! Quit your judging hat n allow others to be who they are.not everyone has to think like you. Appreciate differences and let them coexist.

This is all for today.

Lots of love and great vibes..

Love

🎁Aryaa🎁

How do we rate our write? 6 fun tips to chill off writers❤️

The eternal judge inside our heads will never be satisfied with the write❤️ that’s been my experience. So how do we rate our write???

We don’t have to rate our write!! Read on ..

1. Our write just IS!

Every word that we write is deeply connected to us. It’s interwoven with our beliefs, our experiences and whatever we aspire to be.

There’s no right or wrong way about it!

It just IS!

2. Not everyone will hate our write (or love it)!

Every person is different and unique. Just as we can’t get along with every person around us, like that not everyone will connect or make sense with what we write.

And that is PERFECTLY OKAY❤️

We got to look for feedback that helps us feel good about our write, at the same time gives us the feel like we’re getting better.


3. We have a unique message to give to the world

And this message is coming through you and me❤️ there’s a reason, we are feeling the need to express it.

The need for expressing our version of the truth is called forward.

We got to respect that and accept it lovingly❤️

4. Accomplishments and achievements are not the only stuff!

I’m not saying, believing our book/ write will get the acclaim and recognition is wrong.

It surely is the best feeling. Yet, writing is a process that can be enjoyed as is.

The very act of writing is a huge payoff. In which case the recognition, then becomes the bonus. Simply eyeing the bonus, can hinder our attention from the process. Focus on the process and trust,everything will work out for the best❤️

5. Listen to your gut feeling

Our intuition, or instincts are most often right! If the thought of writing isn’t working out, check what will help you write.

Some writers prefer being organized and some just don’t!

It’s easy to read the rules and follow them. Yet, you know yourself best.

If there is a solution you think will work for you, trust it! It will work.

Writing daily cuz that’s a rule, may not work with everyone (never works with me)

Or writing spontaneously may not work for everyone (the SJ types from MBTI).

Choose whatever works for you, and believe it’s the best cuz it is❤️

6. Enjoy the process as you feel the joy of writing!

This is the one reason I write! I’ve stopped caring for how many people like/ appreciate my style/ topics, and I’ve definitely given up on writing on a particular topic.

I do it spontaneously and I know this is the only way I can bring results❤️ I’ve manifested my baby into my life, believing and trusting my intuition, and the way i feel (and not going for IVF simply as a rule of the thumb)

I know the first book and many more will follow thru just like that❤️ that kinda conviction is necessary!


Next time you wonder how you’re doing, just give yourself a pat on the back❤️

You’re doing magnificently well❤️

If there is anything you didn’t quite like about this one, please feel free to dislike it❤️ at the same time, please know each and every word is written with divine intent, and not meant to hurt anyone with different beliefs❤️

Enjoy the journey❤️

That’s the reason we are here, right?