Joy vs Excellence

About children, the most fantabulous aspect is that they’re totally aligned with their joy..

Bubbles, butterflies, jumping in the muddy puddle.. they do stuff cuz they derive joy out of it ..

My son pretends to play a variety of instruments, none with an intention of mastering the knowledge 🙂 lol

He does it because he feels joyful as his hands beat the tabla or he pretends to play the fake flute..

He loves the idea of it!!

We as kids knew it! What happened then?

We grew up? The faulty adults pushed us into believing we wouldn’t be good enough till we excelled at it??

Complete rubbish!!

Look at prodigys or famous people who have mastered art without learning it!! They simply followed their joy, with a leap of faith that appeared as if they were ‘gifted’..

Of course they were gifted in their relentless belief of the joy they pursued, without an iota of doubt!! N yes, that does make them gifted as compared to the ones who modified themselves to be un’gifted’

When we pursue our joys with doubts, they seem to block the flow of our gifts!!

Pursue the joy simply n forget about everything else!! There, we are all masters ♥️

~aryaa

What’s getting our attention today?

Did you know,every single thought we hold is becoming true in ways we have no idea of?
Let’s try focusing our attention on something like a ‘red flower’ or a ‘blue bus’. Let’s test n see if it will be sent to us. If we are vibrating strongly we may see it the very minute we think of it.

And if not it could take days or weeks. If you see it the very instant, the good news is that you’re vibrating super strongly ❤️🎁 n the bad news is, if you haven’t been aware of your thoughts, every single ‘waste’ thought is manifesting in your life..

“Why am I not getting that job? Why am I messing up? Life is tough!!!!!”

Yeah all of those thoughts are becoming your reality!! As you think them, life is getting tougher..you’re on your way to super messing up, and yes!! You are far away from that job..

Just pause for a second and feel your breath!

You are meant to be happy! That job is meant to be yours! You are meant to have fruitful work assignments and fulfilling relationships. All that money is meant to come to you..

Only if you let it!!!! Yes🎁you got to let it come..and stop blocking it..

I got to share my success story of manifesting my first ever SOLO trip abroad, that too for not a day or two but full on 8 days❤️😍

A retreat that is a gift from my soul. How did I know that it was a gift from my soul?

On seeing someone or something, have you ever felt deeply in your heart that the person or the thing was meant to be yours??

Yeah! When I heard of the retreat, even though it costed thousands of US$, which weren’t available with me at that time, I still felt the urge to attend the retreat in BALI❤️😍

And not coincidently I believe, my sis in law had just returned from her honeymoon from BALI🎁 n bought a box of chocoalmonds..

I used the cover of that box and stuck it on my wall!!


I focused all my attention on being there. I trusted somehow the funds will come!! I somehow managed to make the tiny part payment that reserved my seat for the retreat. 

I also bought gifts for the beautiful people I was meant to meet there. People from across the globe would be there, and I felt like taking some tiny gifts that travelled all the way from India specially for them❤️🎁 this meant for sure, I was going!!!

If I truly desired in attending this retreat what do you think I would focus my attention on?

I focused all my attention on being there rather than on ‘what if the funds didn’t come’..

And guess what! In less than ten days from today I Am GOING❤️🎁

This wasn’t just a money manifestation for me!

I had to let go of every thought like ‘what would people think of me traveling alone? How would I travel alone? What would my two year old kid do? How can I spend so much money on a 8 days trip to Bali ALONE?????’

And I let go of them. All that I thought about was of being there.

Of having the chance to meet my soulmate Lainey, who has been such an important factor in my growth,who has been one of the reasons I am a mother, n one of the reasons I’m feeling happy..

Of my chance to dive deep into my soul, and figure out stuff.

I did it! I’m on a path of manifesting every bit that my soul desires ..

And you can do too.

The important question!!!

What’s getting our attention today???

Aligning with our dream self, are we???

There is no “one” way of being. Who we are today are the best version of ourselves for today. Saying that, I’d also say whatever seems to be holding us, we aught to let it go. We are free flowing souls and are allowed to make any choice, even if it seems crazy or weird to anyone else.

 

Setting high goals for ourselves is a beautiful thing!! but when we are unable to change ourselves in preparation for our new goals, we kinda project a conflict..

For example, we want to be abundant, yet we feel needy from within.We want to be more loving, yet we hold ourselves back. We want to live our life in peace, yet at the very sign of a conflict we wanna run away!!
Bringing alignment in who we are, who we wanna be, and what changes we need to make is the key here. Once we find that key, changing our lives to be the one we have dreamt of, is stones throw away!!
So if you have cherished a dream in your heart and have given up on it cuz it seems unattainable, think again!!! It’s right here, next to you waiting for you to look at it again, but with a changed perspective 🙂