A letter to my son, for when he is older..

Dear Ekaansh,

It’s so tough yet easy at the same time to be a parent of the most beautiful kid I could’ve ever asked for. I trust and know that I’d be a great parent, especially knowing for sure that you’re going to do beautifully well in your life.

It feels like you’re my teacher n I’m the student,more than me- the mom n you- the toddler.

You’ve taught me n are constantly teaching me, of how beautiful n easy life is! You teach me to marvel at the beauty right around us, n intrigue me with your intrigue about the ordinary yet strikingly awe filled stuff.

You teach me the importance of having a voice, and you advocate to me the crucial aspect of being who one is, irrespective of what the flawed adults have got to think. You’ve made me realize the power of intentions, n words spoken from the heart. 

You’ve taught me to revel in the imperfection, and choose differently. I love the way you paint….the colors flowing out of the picture, and black flowers n colorless strawberries with multi colored seeds. You leave me awe struck with your imagination.

You teach me the art of ‘JOY’ n boy!! we have so much fun together, be it looking out the window, painting or reading, playing with water during bath time or simply being outdoors with you! You’ve taught me to smile more often, you show me how you allow the universe to distract you into looking at what’s more beautiful..n I follow you well!!

I love the way you express yourself, you ask for hugs when you need them. And you say NO when you don’t feel like giving me some!!! I love that about you. 
I love how you don’t respond to people who don’t touch your heart, ( even though I try to seek their approval by asking you to say hi to them, and slowly I’ve stopped seeking it)! And you just don’t apologize for shouting at someone who acts in a mean way to you. I love that.

I love the clarity you have even before you’re 2.5 years!! You definitely are my most beautiful gift in this whole wide BIG world, and please know deep in your heart, that every time I say it to you, I mean it two hundred percent!! I say it more often cuz I mean it every single time.

The reason why being your mom is tough – I have to be super mindful that I don’t ruin it for you. I’ve got to be mindful, when I tell you that life is tough, cuz it’s not tough really!

I’ve got to be extra mindful when I ask you to be super protective, cuz I’m responsible for ingraining into your innocent head that life is difficult n we ‘need’ to protect ourselves.

In short, I’ve got to be Intuned, so as to not funk you out of the ‘knowing’ of who you are! 

The reason it’s easy being your mom – you know it!! You know who you are! You just Won’t let me digress you out of it! You won’t take my word for it! You will know that you know better. 

And I’d love to be your student, quietly observing how beautifully you’re gonna make this world your play ground, like you already have. I’d love to be holding your hand, when in truth you’re the one hand holding me❤️😢

You came after a very long time in my life. Especially when I was almost prepared to live my life without a child. N thank you for making me wait!! That wait, helped me realize how much power my thoughts (all of them were then negative) had on my life.

N only when I stopped thinking, I got myself out of my own way!! 

N YOU, my most beautiful gift stepped in!! 

Please guide me as I intend to guide you along this easy n love filled path called life, where our thoughts make us or break us, our intentions make all the difference and our love for ourselves allows us to love this world with all our heart❤️🎁

Today, you said these very same words to me, when I stopped myself from ‘stopping you to play with your food’ – Thank you Amma! You’re my gift in the whole wide big world 😢

I had tears full of love!!! 

The same love you have for yourself, for me n for everyone else in your world!!

Thank you Ekaansh!

I intend to hold this space for you,(like you hold it for me) n let you make your choices irrespective of how the world chooses to ‘label’ them, n remind you eternally how beautiful n full of love you are!!

N how proud I am of you! Every single moment of my life❤️🎁

Thank you!

Your student,

Amma❤️🎁

PS: all the love n appreciation I get from across the world, the popularity, the purpose of Intuned, all the great work we’re doing n all the places we’re gonna go- it’s all thanks to my lil teacher, YOU❤️🎁

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I’m here in your service :)

How can I help you ?

How can I help you ?

~ By listening to you: openly and clearly

~ By supporting you gain clarity and focus

~ By mirroring and echoing your words back to you

~ By not judging you, but rather simply listening to you

~ By supporting you choose your goals, the ones you truly want to pursue

~ By supporting you track your progress

~ By multiplying your joys for you, by simply being a part of them

~ By celebrating wins with you, however big or small

~ By supporting you, work towards fears and eliminate them

~ By supporting you take action

~ By moving forward with you

~ By supporting you achieve contentment and satisfaction

~ By supporting you take charge of your life rather than simply being a spectator

If you are here, reading this : May be you would want to know ‘How can you help me, in helping you‘ or ‘What do I gain when I’m Coaching YOU‘ or ‘Why should you always choose Paid Coaching

Cheers

Shraddha

email: shraddhusb@gmail.com

How dare you?

‘ Do I look crazy here, to go on and on in the kitchen? Trying my best to come up with varieties that match everyone’s tastes, n then hear what’s just not enough to make this dish perfect? ‘

Is this all that you’ve got to say about me?

Hey hey hey… Just Pause!!!! Rewind a bit !!! Now Play!!!

Was that about you? or was it about the dish you made?

Yep!! The world is too fast paced & let’s admit  that we don’t have even a second to spare, to think n differentiate between the two! So much hurt inside of us, for something that has nothing to do with us- Lol..

Funny na!!

We attach so much value to all our beautiful relationships, knowing that they mean a lot to us, yet we fail to see this difference that can eliminate all the pain and anger !!

At work, which is now an integral part of everyone’s lives – My work = ME!! Criticism @ my work = criticism @ Me..

Haha ha -this work, which is not gonna accompany me any further than a few decades gets to be ME 🙂 Wow!!

What do I know about myself? Nothin I’m sure!! Else I wouldn’t have dared to equalize it with something as trivial as work..

I’m pausing everytime an arguement comes up, n checking with myself if its really me! N amazing, that I don’t get hurt when I see that its not even close to what I am 🙂

I never dare to insult myself now, with trivial stuff like this..

How dare you?

Commitment IS Clarity!!

Knowing what you really want & following it with all your heart is Commitment!!

If there’s stuff you’re unable to commit yourself to, think again!! Is it something you really want?

When we keep trying to do something, its not always that we are failing to do it, or we are giving up on ourselves, or we don’t have enough patience or perseverance. It could just be that this stuff is not what you’re deeply committed to.

I’ve been trying hard to get myself committed to being fit. What do I do when I say ‘I tried hard’? I actually wanna say, I did nothing to get myself serious about my fitness. Why?

Fitness is not my priority!! I may want it to be one of my priorities, cuz its gr8 to be fit! One can lead a healthier life, happier life when they’re fit n fine 🙂 Yeah- Agreed!! But what if that’s not my priority?

I may fool myself saying, I wanna exercise & loose those extra pounds but I don’t feel or sense any energy when I think of this activity! So that’s the reason I’m always trying to be fit & that’s also why I’m not committed to being fit!!

Now lets see, what else am I committed to doing?

~ I’m committed to spend lot of quality time with my family & being there for them always !!

~ I’m committed to getting certified as a Professional Coach!

~ I’m committed to retain my independence n freedom and live my life exactly how I want to live it!

~ I’m committed to support other people in living a life of their choice, a life that empowers!

~ I’m committed to explore life, dabble in various beautiful aspects n areas of life rather than specialize and dedicate myself to any one area!

~ I’m committed to being thoroughly spontaneous! Routine or Rules or a predictable life is something I don’t enjoy!

Yes!! Im committed to all the above & they mean ENERGY to me! No amount of money ever motivated me as much as my commitment to support people in loving their life!

So What is Commitment? Commitment is Clarity!! And if you’re trying and trying to get yourself to do something, then you’re surely confused about your commitment!! Once your clear, you’l find the commitment!

Awesome class – Thanks Kathy for a wonderful session!! I’m certainly a commitment loving person now 🙂

Signing Off!