The Million $ question!!!

It’s weird how I’ve been struggling to find answers all my life! I’d heard in the most awesome voice of Esther Hicks that every rocket of desire that is launched in our hearts, is fulfilled! We just got to allow it ..

Few months back, I fulfilled a strong desire of painting on one of the walls in my room (a small part of it). I’ve had this desire all throughout my pregnancy, of painting on one of my walls. I originally fancied painting some nice cartoon on it, yet when it came to doing it (by the time that my son was 2 plus years old) I just painted an expression of all that I chose in my life. I expressed myself with words like JOY! THRILL! FUN! TRUST❤️🎁

Expressing this desire of having fun, thrill,joy and the trust that I’m safe n perfect was like unlocking something big!!

I simply followed my joy, and the trip to Bali came along! Opportunities for trusting that I’m safe wherever I am! N then there was a desire of a painting, for my home!! I’d created energy doodles for so many others, that I felt the time to create something specific for me! For my home..

N that was my first canvas ever!! It was simple yet magical!! It was an expression, my attempt at expressing my desires yet not in words this time.. N I loved it..n I loved creating it..

I didnt know, a simple step like acting on something that’s been on your wish list for a looooong time could open so many doors for me!

I’ve been struggling with this question, ‘what is my purpose in this life?’ N it seemed like it was answered in Bali, I desired to conduct Training Programs, and address the beautiful people of this world..

I love the energy of a crowd, an unknown huge crowd!! I love to hold their pulse, n use my voice to mould their beliefs! Help them rubbish out,every belief that has failed to serve them n support them in being MINDFUL❤️ mindful enough to choose only those beliefs that serve them..

And then, there is the flight of a bird!! I feel like I’m flying, when each of these beautiful people, choose a higher vibration..

They choose themselves, they choose their joys, they choose their prosperity, they choose their beauty, their career..

And I feel the same way, when I Paint❤️🎁

I feel that joy!! I’ve never felt so much joy….other than when I’m in nature looking at mountains n flowers n water falls, other than when I’m playing with my son when he is in his bath tub, blowing bubbles with him, other than meditating at midnight in the healing swimming pool watching the stars n feeling the stillness..other than making incredible friendships with people who are so different than you, yet feeling that connection..other than when I’m in a new, unknown location, totally trusting my safety!!

Yeah painting equals all of that joy!! The joy of dipping my hands into paint, and using them (left n right both hands alike) on the canvas..it feels liberating!!

N I’m not sure if I’ve ever felt this way about any other assignment (other than the ones in which I address a huge unknown crowd) …its way too liberating!!!

The people who know me well, know that I feel the excitement far too soon for anything new that gets my attention..yet there is something totally ‘NON judgmental’ about art..

It’s a relationship between you n your art work!! Where it allows you to express yourselves the way you choose. And however it is perceived by the world, it will always be perfect. You choose when to move on to another work!! It totally lets you choose. I get to decide if it’s a work in progress or it’s finished!!

It looks very beautiful for the eyes of the world, yet I get to spoil it, experiment with it, layer it, n it finishes only when I feel so! It may not even look half of the beauty it was when it was still incomplete… Yet it’s perfect!!

It’s like the people in our lives! We may assume they will stay the way they were when we first time met them..

Yet, that’s not true! Yet totally perfect ❤️😍

You got to SEEE the perfection!! In the bad timing, the changes over time..

In everything!!

N with your art, you get to give it the value! 


9 ways to jump up your fun quotient❤️

Diving straight away into my list of top 9 ‘fun raisers’ 😂

1. Let the world spin around you!

Try this out. Go to any open space like a park, or a garden or may be the beach. Take out your phone/ iPad. Put your camera on the selfie mode. Hold it in front of you and

SPIN! Yeah SPIN. Spin away.

Precaution: if you spin too long, make sure you have someone to hold onto as an anchor when you’re done spinning 😊 or you may just fall down like I was about to..


This activity, is totally fun! It’s fun to see all those colors blend behind you, fuzz out as the only person in focus is you!

Very much like our life❤️ excellent stress buster, and jumps up your energy better than any energy drink. Your smile quotient goes up too❤️

2. Get wet in the rain

We’re welcoming the monsoons here in Mumbai, so quite relevant to us.

Just yesterday, me n my son, we just allowed the water to soak us. He was thrilled as he easily gets all the time. I left my ‘careful momma’ hat back and just enjoyed the rain with him.

Nature has an easy way of reminding us our true nature.

3. Doodle away!


Doodling, helps us tune in!
There’s absolutely no need for anyone to understand your doodle. It’s yours. All yours to express n feel out.

You can use any medium like paper or canvas, any colors like water colors or crayons or pencils. I use pens generally.

Be my guest and let the artist out!

4. Experiment with your routine!

Just for fun,play with something like your route to work! Just experiment n take a new route, an untried one.

Make a newer version of your ‘signature recipe’ , by adding something new or tweaking it.

Choose something else instead of your regular breakfast option in starbucks😜 or wherever..

Trying something new, is a great way to ‘just be’ and definitely brings fun to the table.

Condition: Leave your ‘judgment hat’ behind and just explore away❤️

5. Karaoke now!

Try this. Just play any song on your music list, play it on speaker mode! And sing along.

If you don’t know the lyrics …EVEN BETTER..

Just do it. Let the singer inside you out. Messing around with lyrics is fun! Especially when your husband jumps into the activity and picks every word you messed..

It’s super fun..

Caution: don’t wait for the right moment ..do it now❤️

6. Find and create ‘YOUR MOVES’ routine.

Wondered, how great artists move n dance so well? Their trick is simple. PRACTICE❤️

Play a track that naturally gets you on your feet, and just move along. I do it in front of my mirror, after I’ve shut the door😛

Just dance along n you’ll see some pattern emerging from your moves. Follow it and you’ll find ‘your move’ right there..

If not, you’ll find yourself happier with your fun quotient sky rocketing

7. Do stuff you hate to do : ONLY for fun..

For me, it’s cooking! An item I absolutely hate. Yet, in the right mood it creates wonders. I recently made some awesome nachos in twenty mins, and surprised everyone including myself.

Do you hate any activity? I think the hatred comes from the ‘lack of choice’

So if you’re forced to do something or have no option of avoiding it, it makes a permanent place on your hate list.

Let go of the judgment to do it! Yet choose it only to raise your fun quotient❤️

Caution: do it only when you really feel like doing it❤️

8. Play with people not from your age group 

Either someone older, or younger! Play anything ..

A game of cards,animal dominoes maybe. Scrabble, su doku!!

Me n my hubb used to play a lot of su doku (even though it’s a one person game) as new parents. When our son was tiny, it used to be our fun window ; something we did as soon as  he slept for the night.

Took the ‘new parents’ pressure off us.

9. Celebrate away!

Anything that’s not happening according to plan calls for a celebration.

I remember last year, New Year’s Eve, me n my hubby were watching a cool movie at home n then there was a power cut. Luckily for us , our son was asleep. We sat in our room on the floor n ate in candle light ❤️ pretty romantic thing to happen for new years❤️

Remember: the fun element when stuff isnt working your way

Signing off!! Do send us feedback on stuff that is or isn’t working ❤️😍