Not taking myself seriously : my formula for success!!

Let’s say, I’ve gotten used to not taking myself seriously! Lol.. sounds like a joke, but seriously I’ve flipped careers like flip flops.. Who would take me seriously??

If I was 19 today, knowing the life I’ve led up to this point, I would’ve probably changed my dream of writing and desiring to inspire the world..

Yeah..cuz that strong desire led me through all the anguish I put myself for not knowing my life purpose, and in return, my highest self led me to my primary rescuer : Writing!!

Aha!! No regrets..

I wrote to soften the pain, (didn’t think of an easy way of alleviation) and writing made my life more tolerable. Initially I wrote only cuz it was a vent, n then I started enjoying the process of writing..Fifteen years later (since I dreamt of writing) I am writing pretty regularly..

Ive still not fulfilled my dream of writing books n yet I know this is gonna happen when the time is right!! May be the roller coaster has to get slightly more exciting before I can tip the point of writing inspiration excellently well ❤️hahaha

N coming to the point, I was saying, yeah… I’ve not taken myself seriously ..

After quitting my job, in the December of 2011, I pursued my international certification of Coaching way too seriously and imagined I’d be making a lot of money through it..in March of 2013 I was an internationally certified passion coach (with no passion 😝)

Bingo!!!! Next three and a half years no money, no clients… Just a part time assignment in a college in Pune, n that seemed like a kinda compromise (I totally enjoyed it though)😍

Which meant ‘failure’ lol…I like making it this dramatic..

Then I thought maybe receiving more coaching would be ideal for me to make things work out, cuz the process of coaching had always worked for me..

I’ve manifested my baby, thanks to all the letting go of my fears and blocks that I could bring up during coaching sessions..and if coaching could help me manifest my baby, a coaching business definitely can be manifested..

N bang!!! In September 2016, I decided to attend a coaches retreat in Bali!! My very first solo trip, first ever trip this far away from home, n a one of a kind experience. I somehow thanks to my husband, managed the resources for this luxurious trip❤️

I had such a great time in Bali!!! Full on fun…n yet, the retreat made it clear for me that coaching was off the table..I didn’t fit in a coaches role (remember I had to figure out my passion 😜)

I felt like I wasn’t meant to be a coach!! N that’s when I had started dabbling in art..

I stopped taking myself seriously!I didn’t wanna figure out what I was meant to do. I just wanted to take each day as it comes.

N in that letting go, I thoroughly started enjoying art!! I followed my instinct and purchased canvasses.. I pulled out my box of fabric paints and just painted canvasses after canvasses..

It’s been 8 months since I came back from Bali!! N in 8 months, not have I just found out how great I am as a coach, but also succeeded pretty well at finding a career that I love from the deep recesses of my soul…Creating Energy Art!!

From Dec 2011, to April 2017, I have flipped my life totally 🙂

Manifested my most awesome baby, manifested my dream job of creating Energy Art and I’ve realized I’m an awesome magnificent coach, that can support fellow beings like me, to hold on and not let go ..

Holding onto my dreams is the single most powerful formula that has worked for me!! None of the academic qualifications I took, n very lil of the experience from the four years of a corporate job, served me..

What really served me was my strong desire to find that place of comfort, where I could reach out to my higher self n stay connected!!

My depression and sadness served me, as it took me to writing!! But I could have let go..

I didn’t!!! I just didn’t!! I held on to my desires strongly!!

My desire of being a wife, a mom, my desire of finding the perfect career for which I’d not have to compromise even a bit, n one that let me be exactly who I am!!

N yes!! All of it is working now. 

I wanna celebrate the milestone of creating around 74 art pieces so far, in like seven months..🎁😍drum roll please ❤️


My art has travelled across the globe and I now see how I can serve people by being an excellent coach too..I was always an excellent coach❤️ I had to sort myself out before I could intend to serve others.. And art did it for me..

It’s amazing, how life puts you through this series of happy -sad events only to hand out on a platter, a course for you to realize all your dreams..

I know that for sure now!! N that’s what makes me an excellent coach.. I had to know my true potential before I could hold that space for anyone..

75th art piece : here I come!!

Dear world, gear up!!! Life is meant to be enjoyed and turned to your ways.. Don’t live it like others tell you to. Carve your own path n make your life your way!!! 

Find out what makes you go fuzzy!! Focus on it..

My day starts on a late note, cuz I am a late riser and I love it!! Cuz I get to blog late night when I am the most creative..

I play with my son, paint stuff, enjoy food and meals with family, watch movies like crazy..sing loads of songs , listen to music, dance sometimes, I smile at strangers, I gift my art to people across the globe cuz I feel like it..I get myself clicked, I window shop, I dream of writing books that will inspire the world to stay on this leading edge, I listen to Abraham hicks , I make sure me n my hubb hug our kid together, we play and have fun

Life is meant to be happy 🙂 n when it’s sad, it’s supposed to remind you of the stuff that makes you happy so you can go do it!!

So please stay happy!! When sad, think of what makes you happy..hold onto that sweet spot where life flows by easily..n if you have trouble finding it, chat with someone who can do it for you..friends, family, nature, whatever..

~ ❤️aryaa

Ps: please check out my art works on fb page ‘intuned’!!! They’re posted under an album titled Energy Art!!

Check it out 😘

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A New Life Every Year!!!

This is YOUR n only YOUR life. You get to play with it!!

Like you do when you go to a restaurant, don’t like the menu, move out n go to another restaurant.. Then you order something, ‘nahhh’ ..change your order n finally eat something you’ve never intended to in the real place..

Yeah life is here to thrill you!!

if you already know what you wanna achieve in this lifetime, GREAT!!!

If you don’t know, and you’re really hungry to know : even better!!!!!

And if your ideas keep changing, the world may say you’re a nut case…but believe me, you’re in the best of best spaces where you just want more out of life..

N that’s the gift this life offers..

Pasta..nah.. Sizzling brownie..nah.. Maybe an ice tea..
Nah.. Hmmm Nachos!!!! Yeah okay Nachos!!!

N the world expects you to eat nachos every time you’re hungry!!!!

Mad or what????

To be born in this life, n want the same thing again n again!!!

No way!!! We want more…. 

I wanna write more books , yes…even before writing one book, I wanna write 16 books!!

N I wanna create more energy art, and teach the world how to create it!! Even before reaching out to hundred people, I wanna reach out to this whole world..

N I want a new set of dreams every year!!!

Yeah may be next year after writing 7 books, I may dump writing n become a world traveller..

Imagined that??? Wow!!!! A new life every year!!! 


And this image above, is one (largest part) of the seven parts of my vision board!!!

Why not??? 

My son teaches me this lesson, cuz every single moment he wants to do some thing new..

N before the world can label him as ‘a big dreamer’, ‘indecisive’, ‘too small’ I’m gonna support him by following him..by teaching him, that he is here with answers to every question I have ever asked..

I do not teach him.. I only learn..

~aryaa

The Gift

It appears as if I’ve failed
Cuz all the expected outcomes 
haven’t turned up…yet

It appears as if I’ve failed 
Cuz my ‘out dreamt’ plans
have not reached fruition ….yet

It appears as if I’ve failed
Cuz in my own capacity
frankly ..I cannot make ends meet

It appears as if I’ve failed 
Cuz my financial independence is out there
somewhere…lost in the woods

And yet I rise to this failure
That in disguise is a blessing
I own you, my so called failure.. with pride

I claim you mine cuz in reality
I’ve spent more than I’ve earned
N I’ve dreamt more than I can afford

I blissfully toast to this struggle
Cuz in reality its brought me closer n closer…
to a life I’ve deeply yearned to live

I’m drenched in gratitude n
I thank my choices way beyond measure
even if they have torn me to pieces

You dear FAILURE are my priceless gift!
I recognize and appreciate you❤️
stay with me as long as you wish

Cuz all along this ‘failed’ road, I’ve grown wings
that seem to be invisible..yet growing strong
they’re huge I can tell

and its just a matter of time
till they suddenly turn visible
and il be flying high 😍 out in the sky

The celebrity life❤️🎁

Is it difficult to be the only one capable of noticing, how brilliantly the light shines through oneself?

Saw the movie on Indian Cricket Skipper M.S. Dhoni!! 

Wow! To not give up on oneself is the only n easiest thing one can do.

I know Arijit Singh, waited for ten years, not giving up on himself! He was popular in one of the reality shows,yet it took him ten long years to get that break in Bollywood Playback. And now his life is changed!!

I’ve read the same stuff about Abraham Lincoln n how determined he was, in spite of every failure!!

All it takes is to view this as a journey, which ends in all our dreams coming true!

I’m on it for sure!!! With dreams that overfill my eyes n touch my heart, n flow out❤️🎁

I can hear beautiful voices, millions of them shouting out my name with love, as our lives turn more n more beautiful, with a simple awareness of what is!!

N when my life changes drastically (or appears to) it would still be the same beauty n love, that’s filled in my life this very moment!!

Nothing has changed really!!

I am a celebrity even today, just as much as every one of us!!

The only difference, I know it! N Feel it! N offer gratitude for it!!

Drive it like you stole it❤️


When you have an awesome list of movies on your ‘to- watch’ list, you know life has your back❤️

Each n every movie I remember seeing in the last few months has been awesomeness!

Just watched this one❤️ Sing Street❤️

Such a beautiful one, captured heart warmingly! 

Aspirations, dreams against the back drop of brutal reality❤️

How far are you willing to go?

How much are you willing to risk!!

Actually not playing this one is the biggest risk! Playing it safe is the biggest risk!

Not going for your dreams is the sad news..

Rest everything is good!!! Try n fail – great❤️

Try n fail harder – great!

Do anything but staying safe at the shore….

Please for heavens sake❤️

Love this movie…. Love it loads..

So grateful for each n every awesome movie we’ve been watching❤️

This movie has a bonus of great tracks too❤️

Check it out❤️

3 reasons why coaching clients for ‘free’ will never bring results


Let’s imagine, I forget that I have salaries to pay,fund family trips across the world, cater to my self needs n those of my family.

Let’s imagine, I’m here to offer free coaching!! Here are top reasons why this can never work for my clients to bring the desired results:

1. Willingness to spend, implies prosperity, whereas willingness to hoard implies lack

When we choose free services over paid services, we are secretly communicating to the universe, ‘I don’t have enough. I am unable to afford this’

If our desired outcomes are ones of magnificence, we have to be willing to pay the right price. Cuz it is then that we are shouting out to the universe ‘I can afford this, this is my way of life’

The universe manifests whatever we choose. 

2. Accepting free services, implies we consider ourselves ‘unworthy’

Why do beggars accept free food? Cuz they in their minds have chosen to treat themselves that way. If a beggar chose to work for himself, I’m sure he could easily change his way of life. 

It’s the same principle with everything we pay for! The price we pay for the clothes we wear, food we eat are clear communications to the universe that we are worthy enough!

When we enroll ourselves for a course that may be expensive yet, fulfills our innermost desires, we show commitment towards our highest good. And shout out to the universe, that we are worthy!!

3. Creating a new pattern is important for manifesting a change!

Our reality today, is a by product of our choices over a period of time. In order to create a change, we need to think differently for starters. 

The thought patterns that are ruling our present reality,can never bring about a drastic change in the future. For the change to manifest, we need to imbibe the new thought pattern in the present.

If we wish to be abundant enough to help ten people in the future, we need to start doing so in the present.

If we wish for our future, to be able to afford products/ services that are expensive, we need to afford them today. Only then the universe can help us manifest it.

It’s all a matter of time! 

The current decision is to choose our highest good, in every choice we make.

We are subconsciously choosing thoughts of unworthiness which in turn create situations of lack for us.

Here’s your chance to choose you! Best wishes dears

Choose BIG, not big!

  
When I was expecting my first baby, like any other first time mom, I was quite scared about the process of a baby’s birth. I got to hear from many first time moms about their experiences. Their total labour time was ranging from anywhere between 20 hours and 7 hours.

I thought in my mind, none of this serves me! Why would I go thru 7 long hours in pain? So when I was 3 months into my pregnancy, I started writing the very first item in my gratitude list as ‘labour time less than 2 hours’.

Wrote this every single day, imagined my darling baby in my arms, tears of joy and imagined that it happened in less than 2 hours. 

Do you know my total labour time? 1 hour and 15 mins. My labour time was so perfectly short!! Shorter than this? May be another doc would have delivered my baby rather than my trusted gynac.

So it was just right! Perfectly short and sweet ❤️

If I assured you that all the situations you currently are in, are an outcome of what you’ve chosen for yourself, would you wake up to seeing yourself as a maker of life? 

You’re not a victim of life, can’t possibly be!

Just impossible.

Curious, huh?