The Gift

It appears as if I’ve failed
Cuz all the expected outcomes 
haven’t turned up…yet

It appears as if I’ve failed 
Cuz my ‘out dreamt’ plans
have not reached fruition ….yet

It appears as if I’ve failed
Cuz in my own capacity
frankly ..I cannot make ends meet

It appears as if I’ve failed 
Cuz my financial independence is out there
somewhere…lost in the woods

And yet I rise to this failure
That in disguise is a blessing
I own you, my so called failure.. with pride

I claim you mine cuz in reality
I’ve spent more than I’ve earned
N I’ve dreamt more than I can afford

I blissfully toast to this struggle
Cuz in reality its brought me closer n closer…
to a life I’ve deeply yearned to live

I’m drenched in gratitude n
I thank my choices way beyond measure
even if they have torn me to pieces

You dear FAILURE are my priceless gift!
I recognize and appreciate you❤️
stay with me as long as you wish

Cuz all along this ‘failed’ road, I’ve grown wings
that seem to be invisible..yet growing strong
they’re huge I can tell

and its just a matter of time
till they suddenly turn visible
and il be flying high 😍 out in the sky

The celebrity life❤️🎁

Is it difficult to be the only one capable of noticing, how brilliantly the light shines through oneself?

Saw the movie on Indian Cricket Skipper M.S. Dhoni!! 

Wow! To not give up on oneself is the only n easiest thing one can do.

I know Arijit Singh, waited for ten years, not giving up on himself! He was popular in one of the reality shows,yet it took him ten long years to get that break in Bollywood Playback. And now his life is changed!!

I’ve read the same stuff about Abraham Lincoln n how determined he was, in spite of every failure!!

All it takes is to view this as a journey, which ends in all our dreams coming true!

I’m on it for sure!!! With dreams that overfill my eyes n touch my heart, n flow out❤️🎁

I can hear beautiful voices, millions of them shouting out my name with love, as our lives turn more n more beautiful, with a simple awareness of what is!!

N when my life changes drastically (or appears to) it would still be the same beauty n love, that’s filled in my life this very moment!!

Nothing has changed really!!

I am a celebrity even today, just as much as every one of us!!

The only difference, I know it! N Feel it! N offer gratitude for it!!

Drive it like you stole it❤️


When you have an awesome list of movies on your ‘to- watch’ list, you know life has your back❤️

Each n every movie I remember seeing in the last few months has been awesomeness!

Just watched this one❤️ Sing Street❤️

Such a beautiful one, captured heart warmingly! 

Aspirations, dreams against the back drop of brutal reality❤️

How far are you willing to go?

How much are you willing to risk!!

Actually not playing this one is the biggest risk! Playing it safe is the biggest risk!

Not going for your dreams is the sad news..

Rest everything is good!!! Try n fail – great❤️

Try n fail harder – great!

Do anything but staying safe at the shore….

Please for heavens sake❤️

Love this movie…. Love it loads..

So grateful for each n every awesome movie we’ve been watching❤️

This movie has a bonus of great tracks too❤️

Check it out❤️

3 reasons why coaching clients for ‘free’ will never bring results


Let’s imagine, I forget that I have salaries to pay,fund family trips across the world, cater to my self needs n those of my family.

Let’s imagine, I’m here to offer free coaching!! Here are top reasons why this can never work for my clients to bring the desired results:

1. Willingness to spend, implies prosperity, whereas willingness to hoard implies lack

When we choose free services over paid services, we are secretly communicating to the universe, ‘I don’t have enough. I am unable to afford this’

If our desired outcomes are ones of magnificence, we have to be willing to pay the right price. Cuz it is then that we are shouting out to the universe ‘I can afford this, this is my way of life’

The universe manifests whatever we choose. 

2. Accepting free services, implies we consider ourselves ‘unworthy’

Why do beggars accept free food? Cuz they in their minds have chosen to treat themselves that way. If a beggar chose to work for himself, I’m sure he could easily change his way of life. 

It’s the same principle with everything we pay for! The price we pay for the clothes we wear, food we eat are clear communications to the universe that we are worthy enough!

When we enroll ourselves for a course that may be expensive yet, fulfills our innermost desires, we show commitment towards our highest good. And shout out to the universe, that we are worthy!!

3. Creating a new pattern is important for manifesting a change!

Our reality today, is a by product of our choices over a period of time. In order to create a change, we need to think differently for starters. 

The thought patterns that are ruling our present reality,can never bring about a drastic change in the future. For the change to manifest, we need to imbibe the new thought pattern in the present.

If we wish to be abundant enough to help ten people in the future, we need to start doing so in the present.

If we wish for our future, to be able to afford products/ services that are expensive, we need to afford them today. Only then the universe can help us manifest it.

It’s all a matter of time! 

The current decision is to choose our highest good, in every choice we make.

We are subconsciously choosing thoughts of unworthiness which in turn create situations of lack for us.

Here’s your chance to choose you! Best wishes dears

Choose BIG, not big!

  
When I was expecting my first baby, like any other first time mom, I was quite scared about the process of a baby’s birth. I got to hear from many first time moms about their experiences. Their total labour time was ranging from anywhere between 20 hours and 7 hours.

I thought in my mind, none of this serves me! Why would I go thru 7 long hours in pain? So when I was 3 months into my pregnancy, I started writing the very first item in my gratitude list as ‘labour time less than 2 hours’.

Wrote this every single day, imagined my darling baby in my arms, tears of joy and imagined that it happened in less than 2 hours. 

Do you know my total labour time? 1 hour and 15 mins. My labour time was so perfectly short!! Shorter than this? May be another doc would have delivered my baby rather than my trusted gynac.

So it was just right! Perfectly short and sweet ❤️

If I assured you that all the situations you currently are in, are an outcome of what you’ve chosen for yourself, would you wake up to seeing yourself as a maker of life? 

You’re not a victim of life, can’t possibly be!

Just impossible.

Curious, huh?

Scared to dream big?

Not just dream big, we sometimes are even scared to dream! Wondered why? What really are dreams?

Our hopes of a beautiful future.. Our ambitions of doing something big… Our wish to be in a wonderful place very different from the place we are in now..

What must be the reason, why any person fears to dream? Dreams are hopes!! Dreams are like the wind, beneath the wings, that allow us to fly…Why would any person stop dreaming?

May be people think that dreams can only exist in imagination, they never really become true.. May be people think, why would such beautiful things they’ve dreamed of, happen to them.. what have they done to deserve such wonderful things

Im sure everyone of us has come across either or both of these 2  thoughts in various situations. Haven’t we? I know some of my reader friends are going to disagree saying  ..No… Who says we dont dream big.. We always dream big…infact we continue to dream big…

Ok!! Lets take the example of say Mr. X who stays in a joint family set up. He has a  family of 15 people, and he always dreams big. Inspite of having a pay packet of Indian rupees – 3 lacs per annum,he has been dreaming big since the last 8 years that he will take all 15 members of his family to a Europe trip. His pay package has almost been constant since the last 3 years, and knowing his lack of financial planning, I’l say that he has lots of guts to dream such big dreams.

There are people like him, who continue to dream big for years and years together…

Now friends, lets just look at Mr. X!! Is he really dreaming big? Not really… Why? Lets analyse..

Mr. X has  internally come to this judgement that a Europe trip is something he can never afford for his family. He has internally decided that its something that is JUST NOT MEANT for him. And so, though he thinks, that he is dreaming big, he is not really doing so..

Infact, he is doing something that is more harmful, than not dreaming at all.. Deep down he keeps saying this to himself, that its been 8 years since he has had this dream and the dream is as far from reality as it was 8 years ago.  So, in this internal talk, that he has with himself, unknowingly he is sowing a belief, that its impossible for him to make a dream come true.

He is slowly nurturing within him, an underlying belief that ” this dream can never come true”.

If he really thought that his dream can come true, he would have thought of ways to generate an income that is required to fulfill this dream. He would have started with saving money for this trip or would have thought of increasing his income somehow. He has done neither of it, which just shows that he has stopped believing in himself.

How many of us do this with ourself? If there was a machine, which could record our internal talk (the talk that goes on in our head, the talk that we do with ourselves) , we would have an evidence of how cheaply we treat ourselves.

We think, we just dont have it in us. We think we are not meant for the good things in life. We only think, that its impossible for us to be in a good looking situation, where we have all that we need..

We are very much responsible for the lack of abundance in our lives.

Who told all the famous and rich people in this world that they have the capacity to get rich? No one!! They just trusted themselves… They knew they had it in them!

Who has told us, that we dont have it in us, to achieve our dreams, to make it big, to get rich, to have a beautiful wife, a mindblowing house, a car, a career, …………..and whatever else we want to have in our life???

NO ONE!!! Its just our self!!

So now please think about this!!

Are we scared to dream big?? If YESSS comes the answer, then what is it that you fear thats stopping you?

Just coming to this awareness, that we are responsible for what is happening in our life, is a big achievement!! And those of us who know this, will be able to take steps to change all those things that are not working  in our life.

Stopping for now, but about dreaming big, theres more to come…So keep following 🙂