What if !!!!

A tiny strand of some self limiting belief is generally the culprit that gets in our way ..

A speck of fear that’s really an opportunity towards more fun, gets blown up into this huge block..

One realizes this only after finding the courage to move beyond fear n lo n behold.. it was all a farce..

I’ve thrashed at least four such ‘false n yet held true’ beliefs with my super coach in the last few months! They were causing havoc in my life ..

N so much happens just by being open n willing to talk about these fears n kinda jump into them..

You get to see it yourself! You get to strip your ‘limiting belief’ off all the power you gave it n you get to see it banished out of your life..

I’d love to share few of the self limiting beliefs I got to thrash n kick out of my life (thanks to my super coach Jon) :

~ I have to change myself n ‘fit in’ in order to make it work

~ I have to step into that awkward zone if I wanna ace in selling

~ My studio (I super love both my studios even when I gave power to this Bs belief) isn’t worth raving about cuz in the eyes of the world it’s not perfect 

N quite a few more related to my ‘mommy beliefs’ 

Thank god I thrashed them outta my system!

I feel great believing my life is exactly how I imagine it to be! Easy, effortless, dreamy, unbelievably magnificent!!!

N probably a year from now, fb will share this post on my wall, n I will have proof of how quickly my life steered into the right direction , thanks to me dumping my kinda good friend FEAR for FUN😍

Hope this fear keeps coming into my life regularly, allowing me to expand n grow by thrashing all the beliefs that are causing it in the first place.. 

love

aryaa

Ps: Love your life n chuck ‘what-you-think-the-world-thinks’

Trust

Trust vs fear, fear comes easily thanks to generations of programming our minds with the belief ‘fear is what keeps us safe’

While our brain does that so as to not let us step outside our comfort zone, thus keeping us safe (sighs), our soul really can take care of it..

Trusting that everything will work out is a far better feeling than what if it doesn’t..

N by practice, we can nudge ourselves into making this choice!!

This is only n only a reminder to my self, that trust is all I’ve got!! Cuz it’s gotten me here, to a career that I can finally call mine (after sampling more than three careers that failed)

N it’s gotten me home!!

Trust n trust more folks♥️

My saving grace: being OKAY!!


I’ve learned this lesson several tens of times, and yet when I’m struggling with any kinda negative emotion, I forget to turn to it.

We have been raised to escape from our emotions, and taught that it’s not right to feel anger or disappointment or whatever it is that others think isn’t desired..

I myself feel weird when my son feels guilty of expressing his disappointment. He openly speaks it! He expresses it by crying out loud. N I’m getting used to being okay with that..it’s tough n yet I’m learning..

It’s okay to feel anger! The minute we let it pass, it’s gone!! Struggling with it makes it stay! 

I intend to choose the ‘being okay with any negative emotion’ part.. It makes life super easy..

The power of a well chosen focus🎁

Isn’t it weird, most of my life I’ve tried to resolve ‘stuff’ that isn’t working for me, intending to improve my weaknesses.

What’s weird about this strategy is the focus we give to things that don’t work, makes them grow into our lives..

The more we try to diminish them, the more they magnify!!

Isn’t it simpler to look in places where we know for sure there is good!

Our strengths!!! Focusing on them brings more of them n life just gets better without much effort..

What say???

Are we fear loving people?

I just saw this Hindi movie OMG aka Oh My God, few hours back & one thought that’s stayed with me since then is- Why do we live in the world of fear???

You know what I mean? Forwarding junk chain mails, fearing something horrible is gonna happen to us if we don’t, believing in superstitions and fearing that if we don’t take necessary precautions, we are gonna get hit/ hurt/ killed.. blah blah blah

Visiting our places of worship with a thought that if we don’t, the almighty is gonna punish us to make us aware that we din’t remember him – LOL..

There was this statement made in the film by one of the characters – ‘These people are not god loving people, they are god fearing’ ..This statement so much resonated with me!

What’s our idea of the god we pray to? What’s our take on how our god will treat rather ill treat us if we don’t remember him or do stuff that pleases him/her ?

I used to be a very fear loving person!! I met my husband, and things are getting clearer and clearer, not to miss- more n more beautiful!! Now my thoughts about god are that he loves us all!! Whatever we do or not do, is for us to reap fruits of..If we sow good, we reap good!!

Yeah-  though I absolutely don’t believe that god is sitting there watching us so that he can punish us when the time comes, I do believe that if we remember him and pray for his grace, his grace does move us forward in our journey!!

He is all loving at all times! We can hate people who speak ill of us in front of us/ behind our back, and wish unwell for them (may be we do sometimes- out of anger or negative emotions) but God, can never do that!! That’s why he is god and not human.. He is full of love for each one of us, for each being, for nature, for all the beauty that exists..I guess everything is beautiful from the place he sees it.. I’m guessing so 🙂

And I’m sure each one of us can get to him, by loving all alike!! By chucking out all our fears and welcoming light into our life..

What you think about all of this? Does it resonate? or not really?

Hoping to hear from you!