I don’t know how we come to believe, that any conflicts/ issues that we have must be resolved??
N then in fixing them straight, all we do is think about them, focus on them. We beat the hell out of them n hence, they stay in our life for good. Isn’t it weird???
We can never fix anything up. We can accept it as perfect even when it appears to be broken, or else we forget about it for good. It is never gonna get fixed. It’s our flawed expectation that it should appear ‘fixed’
What’s wrong with broken??
Why can’t we live with something good, that isn’t great! Or live with ordinary, and see the extra ordinary in it??
Why can’t our focus be the one thing that’s extraordinary??
Why can’t our judgment be unconditional??
Why can’t we focus on the way we look at things rather than judge the things???
Life suddenly gets easy peasy.. N then we have some challenges that make it tough, n then we goof up.. N we celebrate being goofed up..
That’s how life was meant to be.. Who brought up the ‘ideal’ ..
The ideal is the wrecker..it wrecks it up for us playing the game n it wrecks the idea of the game itself..
But hello. Who is complaining???
Life was meant to be this way. Yes, exactly this way that it is, no other way!!