The power of a well chosen focus🎁

Isn’t it weird, most of my life I’ve tried to resolve ‘stuff’ that isn’t working for me, intending to improve my weaknesses.

What’s weird about this strategy is the focus we give to things that don’t work, makes them grow into our lives..

The more we try to diminish them, the more they magnify!!

Isn’t it simpler to look in places where we know for sure there is good!

Our strengths!!! Focusing on them brings more of them n life just gets better without much effort..

What say???

Letting yourselves down? No chance!! Here’s 3 reasons why :-)

There is no such thing as letting oneself down! Why? Here are 3 straight reasons:

1. The picture in your mind, of how things should be is just a picture. It’s not a reading from the future for you to rate the present as ‘really bad!!’ If you knew the future, which said at age 25 you’d own a Ferrari, and you’re 25, still depending on local transport- okay you goofed up dude. But NO! You don’t know the future so relax

2. If you always performed above expectation, your life would be BORING!! What kinda growth are you expecting if you’re always satisfied with yourself? Sometimes, not getting what we want leads us to jumping higher, leads us to better stuff! So if you’re not happy with the outcomes, keep doing your best.

3. You chose to be who you now are, exactly as you now are! 

This is who you most wanted to be. So you can’t be goofing things up, even if they appear that way. There’s a growth trajectory you’re following because of all the pleasant and unpleasant situations you’re coming across. If you’d eliminate some of the unpleasant situations, I’m afraid your growth trajectory goes for a toss!

We deserve our own love the most! I feel, getting past the hurt caused by another person is easier as compared to getting past the hurt we cause for ourselves. All the negative self talk only goes to destroy our self esteem.

We are beautiful souls, totally worthy of all the love in this world. A negative outcome is the last thing to prompt us to feel that we let ourselves down!!

There is no such thing like that!! Everything is happening just as we consciously chose it to. Love yourselves and keep going!!



What are you attracting today?

Happiness? Bliss? Satisfaction? Or Envy? Fear? Failure?

Are you attracting abundance? Or are you attracting a constant lack?

Have you ever thought of taking control and attracting stuff that you choose to have in your life? Sometimes, unknowingly and unintentionally, we attract stuff that we don’t really choose for ourselves!!

And this stuff that’s not really welcome in your life, starts pulling more and more of unwelcome n unwanted stuff!!

When you hurt your finger, and constantly think about how quickly will it heal, have you observed, that it so happens that you hurt it again and again?

By constantly worrying about something, we actually feed our energies to the negative possibilities. When we worry about our health, and keep thinking about how is the illness going to disappear, we are feeding energy into our illness and thus, its growing stronger into our life..

When we worry about how are we going to have enough resources, guess what? We will never have enough resources!! Cuz we are focusing on how the resources are falling short rather than being grateful for their presence in our life..

If you’re low and you’re finding everything going wrong in your life, writing a gratitude list may be just what you need 🙂

There was a time, when any minor ache I had would consume so much of my energy, that it just wouldn’t go!! And then I just started ignoring them. And after that they just don’t seem to visit me that often 🙂

Have you experienced anything of this sort? Can you trace back to the thoughts that cause you to attract unwanted or rather unasked stuff?

After you’ve figured this out, I would really love to know -What is it that you’re attracting today?