What we need today in these busy lives isn’t just one thing like money, or love, or health, or career or joys.. 

What we deeply seek is all of the above in a Harmony, balanced in ways that give us joy and meaning to life❤️

This art piece intends the same for every one who is affected or comes into touch with this art piece! It activates the intention of wellbeing expressed harmoniously in our lives, and if you can take a moment to connect with that Harmony ( however weirdly it appears in your life), this piece has done its work..

This piece has been gifted to a beautiful beauty salon, here in Pune,thats operated by beautiful ladies… for beautiful ladies!! 

They happen to celebrate their 15th anniversary, and this piece is a gift and a celebration of the real work these gals do, for generating wellbeing in all those lives that drop in there..

Pictorially, this art piece represents an alignment of four of our seven major chakras

~ the crown chakra, (violet) that signifies our connection with our divinity 

~ the root chakra (red) that signifies our connection with the physical/ with earth.

~ the solar plexus chakra (yellow) at the center depicts our self esteem, and our sense of worthiness! 

~ the sacral chakra (It is orange but depicted here in a shade of chrome yellow)

The flow is depicted through orange dots, much like the gears that function mechanically! 

The aqua marine dots represent a combination of green and blue!

~ the heart chakra (green) in perfect harmony with the throat chakra (blue)

The back drop is a unique shade of Violet, playfully created by my three year old son,mixing various shades together..

It intends for a fun element to be driving our lives secretly!! 

May Harmony, joy and fun continue to lead us through these beautiful lives❤️

Lotsa love, aryaa❤️

Letting yourselves down? No chance!! Here’s 3 reasons why :-)

There is no such thing as letting oneself down! Why? Here are 3 straight reasons:

1. The picture in your mind, of how things should be is just a picture. It’s not a reading from the future for you to rate the present as ‘really bad!!’ If you knew the future, which said at age 25 you’d own a Ferrari, and you’re 25, still depending on local transport- okay you goofed up dude. But NO! You don’t know the future so relax

2. If you always performed above expectation, your life would be BORING!! What kinda growth are you expecting if you’re always satisfied with yourself? Sometimes, not getting what we want leads us to jumping higher, leads us to better stuff! So if you’re not happy with the outcomes, keep doing your best.

3. You chose to be who you now are, exactly as you now are! 

This is who you most wanted to be. So you can’t be goofing things up, even if they appear that way. There’s a growth trajectory you’re following because of all the pleasant and unpleasant situations you’re coming across. If you’d eliminate some of the unpleasant situations, I’m afraid your growth trajectory goes for a toss!

We deserve our own love the most! I feel, getting past the hurt caused by another person is easier as compared to getting past the hurt we cause for ourselves. All the negative self talk only goes to destroy our self esteem.

We are beautiful souls, totally worthy of all the love in this world. A negative outcome is the last thing to prompt us to feel that we let ourselves down!!

There is no such thing like that!! Everything is happening just as we consciously chose it to. Love yourselves and keep going!!



‘x’ number of things, ‘y’ people do!!! No.. don’t do…

Let’s face it!! That beautiful space we go to for a tiny break is the fb app on our phones. We are scrolling, sharing, reading, liking stuff here almost all the time.


Articles like these come as a refreshing break. More often than not, we are reading any and every article that seems or sounds like our help to get better. We are taking those quizzes to know our IQ, EQ, which celebrity we look like, our strengths, our secrets..list is long..

It is interesting! Curiosity isn’t bad!! Yeah but you know what I think?

We read all this stuff all the time. It does boost our esteem when we see we resemble a great looking star or our age is guessed incorrectly (like we would love to hear). Its great to feel great about ourselves!! But why do we need these articles to tell us all that stuff?

My experience with reading such stuff has been that I tend to look at all the stuff I’m not. The first thought that comes to my head is inadequacy. If the 22 things that beautiful women have in common, aren’t those that I do, there’s a thought that says ‘so you’re not beautiful. Forget it’.

I’ve traveled this rough road hard enough to know that I am beautiful in my own ways & that only I can allow myself to believe ‘I’m not beautiful’.

But what about others? The naive who have yet to figure what beauty or confidence or whatever..is all about.

As a new mom, I also used to read a lot about being mommy and what other moms do. I saw that its easy to feel guilty about the stuff you’re not doing rather than feel happy about the stuff that’s working for you.

Unless we really tune our antennas to pick that good stuff, we should be thinking twice about what we are reading online. At least that’s what I do.

Cuz, this stuff has an effect on our subconscious. What we are seeing/ reading/ doing is constantly shaping us without our awareness.

That’s what I think! What do you think? No offense towards anyone who enjoys reading these articles. Simply a thought put forward or maybe a question “Are these articles really serving you?”

Time for fb rehab??

I’m feeling terrible, sad, happy, excited, lucky, annoyed …….
I’m reading, drinking, eating, listening,….blah blahing….
I’m liking, sharing, commenting, posting….

So many options to choose from!!
Just yesterday I was telling my hubby that I feel horrible observing the amount of time I’m using fb…

And im feeling dependent on something so hollow 😦 everytime I have some mins off, I’m on fb…

When I’m free, I’m surfing fb..

Omg: I’m sick and bored of the fact that I’m losing control to such stuff..

Fb isn’t a blessing or a curse!! It’s an opportunity to make connections

Now depends how or how much we use it and how much we let it impact our life..

Signing off #feeling determined – lol

Ps: this blog post is intended to be my expression !! Any judgment held towards me can be done so at ur own risk 🙂